As Anthony Hamilton once said “I Just Can’t Lose Her”. "What price are you willing to pay not to lose her?" or “What are you willing to do to find her?” Or even better, “Who will you seek to have her?” If you believe she is as special as you say she is than go after her and don’t stop until God gives you permission to either move on or unite the whole you with the whole her. In the meantime, show her that the words RESPECT, LAUGHTER, LOVE, and most of ALL FRIENDSHIP are not dead. If your heart won’t let you lose her, than ready yourself for the risk. Sometimes we must take a risk before we are ready or prepared for the job. If you love her and believe that she earnestly loves you than pray and seek God for her hand, because although she is not waiting for you she is awaiting you. Her anxiety is just as high as yours, but the difference is she believes that you will come for her, because God said so, and with that SHE WAITS, IN FACT she IS STILL. The bible says “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord”—Proverbs 18:22, Proverbs 34: 10 also says “Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” You will never find a person better made for you as she, for her heart is rare, more precious than anything you will ever hold. So if you agree and too believe she is truly precious, than why do you continue to question God of her place in your life?
Will you ever understand that the essence of her love is shown through her obedience to God and not you? Have you ever wonder why you cannot say goodbye? Or why both of you have so happen to find yourselves in the same space, same generation, sharing the same fight or even uniting the same people for the same mission! I don’t want to scare you, but the real news is this: You don’t stay or continue to love her because you made the decision! No my brother, you aren’t that perfect, but rather God decided that her heart fits perfectly inside of yours, and so she will always understand you more than anyone else; which is the beauty of her heart that was created especially for you and the humanity that makes the ever being of you; That type of perfection is something that the world can never find and contains only a DNA perfectly made for both you and her.
I plead with you to not take her for granted, because if you do, and when the smoke clears and the dust settles, she might slip away because of your disobedience to God. He may decide to remove her because He felt that her heart was too precious to be abandoned by you and give her to someone else. Don’t allow your fatigue or pain to do something you will regret; Like Not Having Her There! My grandmother once told me to never deny yourself of the white picket fence if that’s what you desire and believe that God has for you. So I tell you, don’t feel less than TO BUILD THAT WHITE PICKET FENCE FOR HER, for what her heart can give is the very garden of love that she seeks and nothing else. Let me be clear, the white picket fence is not her external desire, but rather her internal need of love, happiness, safety, and true partnership. Can you remember a time were her smile felt completing without her ever speaking a word? It’s because the plan that has been crafted for her life has been prepared by God, which has nothing to do with her, and so she cannot control the impact that she has on you. You will realize one day that her friendship was just the gift that opened up God's favor to receive her love, for it is HER HEART's LOVE that will allow you to love her more than you love yourself! Don’t ever FORGET HER HEART, its precious, and if you really desire it, than DO THE RIGHT THING, for it will do the right thing for you!
